Yesterday my husband blessed me by telling me it was my turn to get away.
Woot! Woot!
I don't get away on my own (sans Brad or any number of children) often .....in fact the only time I can think of being away on my own in recent years was a couple weeks ago when I had to return to St. Joe Island for a family funeral.....not exactly the sort of get away one looks forward to. When you work for yourself, there are no paid vacations. You pay for the vacation before you go and then you pay for it again when you return in time.
Big family + self-employment = fewer vacations. I'm not complaining, it's the choice we've made.
But I'm excited....I've invited a friend along and we don't know where we're going yet but the anticipation and planning is half the fun.
When Brad worked for the Federal Justice Department and we lived in Yellowknife we had 3 great family vacations well, I missed the 1st one 'cause I started working for the Mounties and whey wouldn't give me the time. Brad drove back to Ontario with 5 kids.....that's a great story, but I digress. We took the entire month of January (Yellowknife = very cold + very dark) and hit the road.....it was awesome (and I don't use that word often). There wasn't "a" destination, but several: the one I most enjoyed was a circuitous route that included stops in Calgary, the Grand Canyon, Las Vegas, Disney Land....well, you get the idea. We had no end of trouble on that particular trip with the vehicle we drove. It was a big white suburban with polar bear license plates.....we looked like a moving snow bank. The rear heater stopped working as we were driving out of the territories (in - 30 degree weather); the radiator went when we were driving through the desert; a belt broke in one of the front tires as we were driving through the red woods of BC and we lost power driving through the rockies. Add to that a problem that no garage seemed able to fix (even a chev specialist in Vegas); the burb would keep going slower and slower until Brad would just pull over, shut off the vehicle and wait......10 minutes, 20 minutes......whatever; eventually it would start fine and off we'd go again. But ya' know, it didn't ruin the journey but added to the flavour of what was already a great journey and provided us with some great memories and stories to tell!
A good trip reminds me our spiritual journey....it isn't just about the destination (though it's gonna be fabulous) but about enjoying the ride, "the journey" and even those hard things add to the flavour of our lives and leave us better off than we were.
So cool......
Where to go, where to go... Toronto, Montreal, Quebec City, Boston (love Boston), New York City.....I've always wanted to go to New York City but Brad has no desire to go there......I don't know but I don't care. It's gonna be fun 'cause I'm bringing a friend along for the ride.
Oh yeah.....the big old white suburban ran like a top for the final 2 hours of our month long trek. In fact, Brad's ankle got sore from holding his foot off the gas!
Go figure.
I'm stealing an idea I got from Tracy's blog (thanks Trace).....what great get-aways have you enjoyed? Did you encounter any problems along the way and, if so, did the problems add to your enjoyment or take away from it?
Anybody got an idea as to where we should go??
9 comments:
Debbie,
Welcome to the community of blogging. You seem to be so natural at it! I think you should go somewhere that you have always wanted to go. When do you plan on going(time of year). New York is a great place to go. Lots of shopping, Broadway shows, etc.
I look forward to hearing about your plans for your trip soon!
Carrie
The only place I've ever been in Cananda, other than the Vancouver airport, was Victoria, B.C. It was AMAZING!! I was there for a full week and stayed at the Empress Hotel overlooking the bay, and had my first (and only) high tea.
pam
congratulations on starting the blog...you're a natural! :)
thanks Carrie....haven't settled on a date, but it will likely be sooner rather than later.
Pam: The West coast is beautiful. We spent our honeymoon there and have been back another time to a cousin's wedding. I've never done the high tea thing....thought about it though! Would love to get to Texas!
Thanks for your encouragement, ladies. I'm having fun...
I can't keep up with you, Debbie! You are on a roll! Ha-ha!
It's funny because I stole that idea from my friend Lindsay's blog :)
I love what you said here:
"A good trip reminds me our spiritual journey....it isn't just about the destination but about enjoying the ride, "the journey" and even those hard things add to the flavour of our lives and leave us better off than we were."
So true, Debbie. I like that.
The only getaway that comes to mind is our trip to North Bay with the boys last summer. We had to stop a gazillion times so that Ethan could go pee. If that was the worst problem we encountered, then I think we did pretty good :)
Ideas on where you should go... well that all depends on how much spending money you have + the reason WHY you are going. If it's to really relax then I would go to one of those weekend Spa's and get messages every hour!!! But if you have some spending money, then it would be fun to go to New York City or Montreal to do some shopping, shopping, shopping. Or Italy? There's a nice place to shop. I've got shopping on the brain, so I'll stop now, hehe.
You've got a wonderful husband, Debbie.
good ideas, Trace.
What are you doing up at 4:54 a.m.??
Debbie...
I just went to Deerhurst resort in Huntsville.... is was AMAZING..... I got a good deal, and had a ball and I was all by myself! With someone else it would be even better.
there are some pictures on my blog
whenlifegetsmessy.blogspot.com
BTW: Welcome!
I've heard great things about Deerhurst.....thanks Laura
cool pic!
Oh it's because I went to bed at about 8:30 pm last night and then woke up at 4am and couldn't fall back asleep, so I came downstairs on the computer. I went back up to bed at 5am and fell back asleep until 6:30am. I'm not used to going to bed so early... I've been going to bed early like that all week and woke up in the middle of the night/early morning each time. I guess I should just stay in bed next time :)
I think the time on your blog may be wrong because it just said that my comment was sent at 11:18am - but it's 2:18 am now. There is a 3 hour difference.
Ok, that makes sense because I wasn't awake from 4:30 - 5:30 this morning on the computer... I was really awake from about 1:30 - 2:30 this morning. It's all making sense to me now :)
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